Three Secret Rules For a Happy And Regret Free Life | Three Rules Of Wisdom | Buddhist Story |

long time ago a young man lived in a village after 2 years of marriage he expressed to his wife his desire to go abroad and do business even though his wife was pregnant she still agree to see her husband off young man left for his journey young man reached a foreign country and worked hard he worked day and night for many years and earned a lot of money and became a Rich merchant after 20 years he felt satisfied with the money he earned and felt like wanting to return home he wanted to give surprise to his wife so he did not inform her about this while returning on the ship he found a wise man who was looking sad the merchant asked him the reason for his Sadness the wise man said I am sad because there is no respect for wisdom in this country I came to this country to sell sutras of wisdom but no one wants to buy it the merchant thought I have earned a lot from this country this is my workplace no one should criticize it it should be respected thinking this he expressed his desire to buy sutras of wisdom the wise man said you want to buy that's fine I will give you three sutras but price of these three sutras is 500 100 gold coins can you pay that the deal seemed little expensive to the man but due to respect for his workplace he agreed to give 500 gold coins to the wise man in exchange for three sutras of wisdom the wise man gave first Sutra of wisdom to the man and said first Sutra is sometimes what we see with our eyes is not the truth and what we think after seeing is not actually the same so be patient in such times then the wise man gave second Sutra of wisdom to the merchant and said second Sutra is before taking any big step in your life think for some time with a calm mind then the wise man gave third Sut of wisdom to the man and said never take any decision in your life when you are angry saying this the wise man took prize for the Sutra he gave and left from there after many days of Journey the merchant reached his City since he wanted to give surprise to his wife so he silently entered his house and went straight to the wife's room but after seeing the scene there he was shocked there he saw that a young man was sleeping beside his wife The Man became very angry and started thinking I kept worrying about her all these years and here she is sleeping with another man I will not leave both of them alive thinking this he pulled out his for and was about to attack both of them just then he recalled about the first Sutra of the wise man which was sometimes what we see with our eyes is not the truth he thought my wife is sleeping with another man is this truth or not then he recalled the second Sutra of the wise man which was before taking any big step in life think for some time with a Calm Mind as he recall second Sutra of the wise man he started thinking just then the third Sutra of the wise man came to his mind which was never take any decision in your life when you are angry as soon as the man recalled the third Sutra of the wise man he lowered his hand carrying the sword as he pulled back his sword the sword accidentally struck a PT and the pot fell down because of the noise his wife woke up as soon as she looked at her husband she was overjoyed with happiness and said oh you have come my life was empty without you only I know how I spent so many years waiting for you saying this she hugged her husband the merchant was still angry seeing another man sleeping on the bed at that moment his wife asked the young man to get up saying son wake up your father has come listening to these words of his wife tears welled up in the Merchant's eyes memories fluted back to the time he had left for his overseas Journey a time when his wife was pregnant the man came to understand and that the young man sleeping on the bed is none other than his own son the man hugged his wife and son tightly tears streaming down his cheeks as he felt overwhelmed with joy as he held them close he could not stop thinking about how things might have gone wrong if he had not remembered the wise man's advice at that time the cost of these three sutras seemed costly to him however Looking Back Now even 500 gold coins feel like a small price to pay for such a invaluable wisdom if we take a moment to observe Our Lives we will notice that in today's fast space Society we often fall prey to Quick judgments and instant reactions nevertheless this story can impart valuable lessons on the significance of patience careful deliberation and keeping calm particularly in the moments of Doubt or anger the first principle reminds us that appearances can be deceiving just because something looks a certain way does not mean it is the truth this principle encourages us to challenge our first impressions and underscores the importance of patience in discovering the truth hidden beneath it in a time when social media re and information can spread quickly this lesson holds particular relevance quick judgments can result in major misunderstandings and Chaos in our lives the second principle advises us to take a moment of calm reflection before making major decisions in a culture that often values quick results this wisdom encourages us to slow down and consider the long-term implications of of actions whether it is a career move a financial choice or a personal relationship pausing to think with a clear mind can lead to more informed and beneficial outcomes the third principle cautions against making decisions when consumed by anger in a word where people often fail in arguments and have different opinions that divide them this principle tells us to take a break and calm down before responding it teaches us that decisions Made In the Heat of moment are often irrational and can result in unnecessary conflict and remorse therefore it is wise to refrain from making decisions while in a state of anger ultimately these three principles are not just wise words but practical guidelines that can help us avoid many future problems these important keys can open door to a life filled with Harmony and understanding so let us keep in mind that progress begins with small steps and by embracing these principles we can handle life's difficulties with Grace and strength showing our commitment to our personal growth and overall well-being [Music]