HOW TO SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS | Buddha Story |

[Music] once buddha came to preach his disciples many people and disciples had gathered there to listen to him he had a beautiful piece of cloth like handkerchief in his hand everyone was surprised as it was very unusual to see buddha with anything in his hand when buddha was addressing everyone he started tying knots in that piece of cloth after tying five knots in the piece of cloth he showed it to everyone and asked them is this the same piece of cloth which i had brought earlier or is there any difference one of the disciples said lord cloth is same but its condition has changed buddha said you are right now if i wish is it possible for me to bring condition of this cloth back to its original condition another disciple replied yes lord it is possible but you will have to untie all the knots from that piece of cloth buddha asked how would you untie the knots will the knots be untied by pulling the piece of cloth another disciple replied lord if we observe carefully and figure out how exactly the knots have been tied then it will be easier to untie the knots but if we don't know that and try pulling the cloth from both sides then we might make the north even tighter buddha said exactly now you see many times we argue and quarrel with our friends and family members if we insist only we are right then the knots become stronger then as buddha and tie the knots he explained if we analyze the reason behind knots and try to remove the root cause of knots without expecting anything from other person then we can easily untie all the notes if we can do that our relationships will become smooth just like this piece of cloth you just need to untie the knots and then you will have smooth relationships with your friends and family members your whole life will become joyful [Music] if we see in our life we will find that many times we have quarrel with our family members and friends and then as a result of quarrel we tie knots in our relationships we tie a knot of hatred we tie a knot of grudge we tie in not of jealousy we die in not of dislike for someone and then these knots start causing uneasiness in our life we want to improve our relations and we want to sort out our differences but we start pulling things apart due to our ego that only we are right and other person is wrong we need to let go of everything forgive others if they have done something wrong with you don't expect someone's apology and if you think it is your fault then don't hesitate to apologize we need to avoid tying these knots in our relationships try not to have expectations from others be happy with what you have and make others happy too this is words of wisdom inspirational story thanks for watching [Music] you